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-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3ENever let it be said that us men don=92t enjoy getti=
ng in touch with our feminine side=2E C=92mon fellas=2E=2E=2Eyou know shoppi=
ng is good therapy, and a good tearjerker every now and then cleanses the sp=
irit=2E If not for yourselves, do it for your wife=2E=2E=2Ejust think of the=
<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3Emileage that comes out of a=
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ont-size: 12=2E0pt'=3ENow before I get too many men offside, let me explain=2E=
 The past two weeks I have been holidaying in a beautiful little south coast=
 town in NSW called Wollongong=2E I know, strange name, but a great place=2E=
 There is much to do in Wollongong, with surfing and fishing high on the pri=
ority list, followed closely by some surfing and a little fishing=2E It just=
 so happens that my 13 year old son is a mad keen fisherman, and loves the b=
each=2E=2E=2Eso needless to say our first couple of choices on the holiday a=
ctivity list have been checked off many<IMG hspace=3D3 src=3D'http://www=2Eb=
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ly hands and zinc cream the last few days=2E However, there is one slight pr=
oblem=2E=2E=2Ea ten year old daughter feeling a little left out=2E Enter =93=
Girl Time=94=2E=2E=2EDad and his little girl to spend some quality time toge=
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what do 10 year old girls like to do=3F Well, forget the beach; forget fishi=
ng; forget sport=2E=2E=2Ejust add shopping malls and a movie cinema and you =
have a well packaged afternoon=2E Yep, we decided to first go and see a movi=
e together, and then do some window shopping in one of the shopping centres=2E=
 I know many guys would cringe at the thought of these two options, but reme=
mber this=2E=2E=2Eone day our little blond hair princess=92 won=92t always b=
e daddy=92s little girl=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DDefaultTe=
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han'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-s=
ize: 12=2E0pt'=3EThe movie was excellent; =93Brother Bear=94, sharing popcor=
n and Coke, laughing and crying together throughout the movie=2E The walking=
 around the shopping mall was also fun, hand in hand with my little girl,<IM=
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out whatever she wanted=2E Walking straight past the sports shop, didn=92t e=
ven stop for a Gloria Jeans coffee, and the fishing section in Kmart was def=
initely out of bounds=2E We had the best afternoon; and do you think she app=
reciated it=3F You bet! The hug and a kiss from my sweetheart, and the since=
re gratitude she displayed meant more than 100 days out fishing with mates=2E=
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=2E=2Eremember the special things in our life; our family=2E=2E=2Ewith some =
Girl Time thrown in for good measure=2E Hey! It wasn=92t so bad; my feminine=
 side shone through beautifully=2E I know exactly what lip gloss to buy now,=
 which Bratz Dolls are the coolest, and how to say =93Like=94 after like eve=
ry like word like!!! And don=92t worry, just =91cause mum wasn=92t there doe=
sn=92t mean I won=92t get plenty of mileage out of this=2E=2E=2Emum thinks I=
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ana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3ETill next time=2E=2E=2EPaul</SPAN=3E</P=
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; Courier=3EPaul and his wife are the Children=92s Ministry Coordinators for=
 the Goodlife </SPAN=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;=
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dren aged two,=A0ten and=A0thirteen years=2E Paul is an active surfer and a =
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It is interesting that no matter what culture we live in on planet earth a b=
asic foundation of family pervades each society=2E Even hidden in remote jun=
gles, tribes function as family units and the educators are often grandfathe=
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guide how they live=2E These teachings are known as the Seven Grandfathers=2E=
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R: #cc00cc; mso-bidi-font-size: 9=2E0pt'=3EThe Seven Grandfathers</SPAN=3E</=
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0pt'=3E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</FONT=3E</P=3E<P class=3Dstorytext style=3D'=
MARGIN: auto 0cm'=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E<B=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10=
pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 9=2E0pt'=3ENbaakaawin -=96 Wisdom:</SPAN=3E</B=3E<SP=
AN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 9=2E0pt'=3E To cherish know=
ledge is to know wisdom=2E Wisdom is given by the Creator to be used for the=
 good of the people=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</FONT=3E</P=3E<P class=3Dsto=
rytext style=3D'MARGIN: auto 0cm 12pt'=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E<B=3E<SPAN s=
tyle=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 9=2E0pt'=3EZaagidwin -- Love:</=
SPAN=3E</B=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 9=2E0pt'=3E=
 Love must be unconditional=2E When people are weak they need love the most=2E=
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t'=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3EMnaadendmowin -- Respect:</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</B=3E=
<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 9=2E0pt'=3E<FONT face=3D=
Verdana=3E Have respect for all that is=2E All of creation should be treated=
 with respect=2E You must give respect if you wish to be respected=2E<BR=3E<=
BR=3E<B=3EAakdehewin -- Bravery:</B=3E To face a foe with integrity=2E To do=
 what's right even when the consequences are unpleasant=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</=
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T face=3DVerdana=3E<B=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: =
9=2E0pt'=3EGwekwaadziwin -- Honesty:</SPAN=3E</B=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE:=
 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 9=2E0pt'=3E Always be honest in word and action=2E=
 Be honest first with yourself, and you will more easily be able to be hones=
t with others=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</FONT=3E</P=3E<P class=3Dstorytext =
style=3D'MARGIN: auto 0cm'=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E<B=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT=
-SIZE: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 9=2E0pt'=3EDbaadendizin -- Humility:</SPAN=3E=
</B=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 9=2E0pt'=3E You ar=
e equal to others, but you are not better=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</FONT=3E=
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cm'=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E<B=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; mso-bidi-f=
ont-size: 9=2E0pt'=3EDebwewin -- Truth:</SPAN=3E</B=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SI=
ZE: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 9=2E0pt'=3E Speak the truth=2E Do not deceive =
yourself or others=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</FONT=3E</P=3E<P class=3Dstor=
ytext style=3D'BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; PADDING-RIGHT: 0cm; BORDER-TOP: me=
dium none; PADDING-LEFT: 0cm; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; MARGIN: auto 0cm; BORDER-=
LEFT: medium none; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; mso-border-=
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<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 9=2E0pt'=3E<FONT face=3D=
Verdana=3EThese foundational principles are what keeps families together=2E =
They are a fathers guide to his own life behaviour and that of his children=2E=
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RIGHT: medium none; PADDING-RIGHT: 0cm; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEF=
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SIZE: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 9=2E0pt'=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3ENo matter =
what tribe you below too, the same applies=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E=
</P=3E<P class=3Dstorytext style=3D'BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; PADDING-RIGHT=
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=2E0pt'=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3EGod bless grandfathers and grandmothers=2E<=
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<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana si=
ze=3D2=3EAdapted by Ron Hellyer from the Minnesota Public radio www=2Enews=2E=
mpr=2Eorg</FONT=3E</P=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div align=3Dright=3E<font size=3D2=3E<a=
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fffff' nowrap=3E<img src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/tem=
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er</b=3E</font=3E<font face=3D'verdana' size=3D2=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div=3E<img s=
rc=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/fathers=5F=
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one morning, a mother went in to wake up her son=2E 'Wake up, son=2E It's ti=
me to go to school!' <BR=3E'But why, Mom=3F I don't want to go=2E' <BR=3E'Gi=
ve me two reasons why you don't want to go=2E' <BR=3E'Well, the kids hate me=
 for one, and the teachers hate me, too!'<BR=3E'Oh, that's no reason not to =
go to school=2E Come on now and get ready=2E' <BR=3E'Give me two reasons why=
 I should go to school=2E' <BR=3E<BR=3E'Well, for one, you're 52 years old=2E=
 And for another, you're the Principal!'<BR=3E=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=
=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=
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com=2Eau/email=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/fathers=5Fproposal=2Egif' align=3Dlef=
t border=3D0=3EDave took Mary out for a romantic dinner where conversation t=
urned to the subject of marriage=2E Dave had been saving for an engagement r=
ing, but he was in graduate school and in dire need of a new computer=2E Mar=
y was understanding, telling Dave they had the rest of their lives to get en=
gaged, so he should use his savings to buy a computer instead=2E<BR=3EDuring=
 dessert, Dave suddenly reached into his pocket and pulled out an engagement=
 ring=2E<BR=3EMary was stunned, but after she collected herself, she looked =
up and prompted, 'Well, don't you have something to ask me=3F'<BR=3EDave the=
n got down on bended knee=2E 'Honey,' he said, 'will you buy me a new comput=
er=3F'</FONT=3E<BR=3E</SPAN=3E</FONT=3E=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=
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4 src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/father=
s=5Fcomputer%206=2Egif' align=3Dright border=3D0=3EWhile my brother-in-law w=
as tapping away on his home computer, his ten-year-old daughter sneaked up b=
ehind him=2E Then she turned and ran into the kitchen, squealing to the rest=
 of the family: 'I know Daddy's password! I know Daddy's password!' <BR=3E'W=
hat is it=3F her sisters asked eagerly=2E <BR=3EProudly she replied: 'Asteri=
sk, asterisk, asterisk, asterisk!'</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E<FONT =
color=3Dgreen=3E=A0</FONT=3E</P=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div align=3Dright=3E<font siz=
e=3D2=3E<a href=3D'#top'=3EBack to top</a=3E</font=3E</div=3E<br=3E<p=3E</p=3E=
</font=3E</blockquote=3E</td=3E</tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=3D578 height=3D13 bgco=
lor=3D'#ffffff' nowrap=3E<img src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5F=
blast/templates/fathers/template1/Generic/banner=2Ejpg' width=3D595=3E</td=3E=
</tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=3D578 height=3D25 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff' background=3D'h=
ttp://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/templates/fathers/template1/Gene=
ric/fade=2Egif'=3E<blockquote=3E<p=3E<font size=3D3 face=3D'Verdana, Arial, =
Helvetica, sans-serif' color=3Dblack=3E<br=3E<a name=3D'anchor5'=3E</a=3E<b=3E=
Single Dads</b=3E</font=3E<font face=3D'verdana' size=3D2=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div=
=3E<img src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/=
fathers=5Fissue72-12th January, 2004=5Fdad-kids 4=2Ebmp' align=3Dleft=3E</di=
v=3E <DIV class=3DSection1=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0=
pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center' align=3Dcenter=3E<SPAN=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E<FON=
T color=3Dmediumvioletred=3E<STRONG=3ETo Whom is it =93Best and Fair=94=3F<=3F=
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/=3E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</STRONG=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMs=
oNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center' align=3Dcenter=3E<=
SPAN style=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<FONT color=3Dmediumvioletred=3E<STRON=
G=3E<FONT size=3D2=3Eby John Flanagan=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</STRONG=3E<=
/FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E=
<SPAN style=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<FONT color=3Dmediumvioletred=3E<STRO=
NG=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</STRONG=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNorm=
al style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<F=
ONT size=3D2=3EThe Child Support System is based on a rigid and inflexible f=
ormula=2E There is no allowance for individual circumstances to be taken int=
o account=2E There is no provision for individual involvement of either pare=
nt in the decision-making process=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E=
<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-FAM=
ILY: Verdana'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<=
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LY: Verdana'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3EA normal family earning $60,000 per annum wi=
ll give the Government almost half of their income in taxes=2E These taxes i=
nclude income tax and indirect taxes such as fuel excises, GST, the Medicare=
 levy, car registration, insurance levies and Council rates=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E=
</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E=
<SPAN style=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</=
FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<=
SPAN style=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3EFor a non-resident pa=
rent with say, three children from a previous marriage to provide for, will =
have a further 32 per cent =93tax=94 on gross income (less an arbitrary =93e=
xempt amount=94 of $12,315 per annum)=2E No account is taken of the true cos=
t of bringing up the children=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SP=
AN=3E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MA=
RGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E=
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IN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3EA=
fter the 32 per cent deduction, the family of the liable parent then has to =
pay for everyday commitments for himself and his second family=2E This may i=
nclude such things as food, school fees and mortgage and superannuation paym=
ents=2E This can be all too much! <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P =
class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-FAMILY=
: Verdana'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P c=
lass=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-FAMILY:=
 Verdana'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3EThe liable parent often finds that the only sol=
ution is to either leave employment or to move overseas=2E Some even take a =
third option of ending their lives=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E=
<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-FAM=
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LY: Verdana'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3EMoving overseas is difficult because there a=
re fifty one (51) countries that have reciprocal child maintenance agreement=
s with Australia=2E As a result, in Australia forty one (41) per cent of lia=
ble parents are either unemployed or are on incomes that are below the taxab=
le threshold level=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoN=
ormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E=
<FONT size=3D2=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNor=
mal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<=
FONT size=3D2=3EWe need to return to a system of individual involvement and =
commitment that we had prior to the implementation of the Child Support Sche=
me in 1989=2E We don=92t need the Child Support Agency and its inflexible-fo=
rmula approach to child support=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P=
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Y: Verdana'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P =
class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-FAMILY=
: Verdana'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3EThe current system does not benefit anyone - n=
either the children, the parents nor the Government which does not receive t=
axes=2E The current child support system is not =93Best and Fair=94 to anyon=
e=2E That is, other than to the 2,695 people who are employees of the Child =
Support Agency=2E<BR=3E=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=
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MILY: Verdana'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E=
<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<B style=3D'mso-bidi-fo=
nt-weight: normal'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E=
=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</B=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D=
'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<B style=3D'mso-bidi-font-weight: normal'=3E<SPAN st=
yle=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3EJohn Flanagan=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=
=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</B=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0=
cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E=A0<o:p=3E=
</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0c=
m 0pt'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3EJohn Flanag=
an has two (2) twin daughters aged 7 years=2E He is a non-resident parent=2E=
=A0</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E=
=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARG=
IN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3EJ=
ohn is also the Assistant Secretary of the Fairness in Child Support (F=2EI=2E=
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FONT color=3Ddarkslateblue=3EThe Do=92s and Don=92ts of Depression<BR=3E</FO=
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<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E<FONT size=3D2=3EDo you have a spouse who may be depr=
essed=3F Do you have a mate who is depressed=3F Are you depressed=3F<o:p=3E<=
/o:p=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN=
: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E<FO=
NT face=3DVerdana=3E<FONT size=3D2=3EDepression is the leading cause of disa=
bility in Australia=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P cla=
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so-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E<FONT size=3D2=3EIn the wo=
rkplace approximately 5=2E8% of employees have depression=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E<=
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m 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E<FONT face=3D=
Verdana=3E<FONT size=3D2=3EApproximately 44% of people do not receive treatm=
ent for depression=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P clas=
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dicate that 6 million working days are lost in the Australian workplace due =
to absenteeism caused by depression equating to some $1=2E2 billion in cost =
to employers=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMs=
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cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E<FONT face=
=3DVerdana=3E<FONT size=3D2=3ESuicide is deeply linked to depression and con=
tinues to increase=2E Youth suicide in Australia is one of the highest per c=
apita in the world=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P clas=
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ize=3D2=3EDr Gary Chapman (Christian Marriage Counsellor) in his book =91Lov=
ing Solutions=92 sets out a list for husbands and wives to consider:<o:p=3E<=
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ENT: -18pt; tab-stops: list 36=2E0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2'=3E<SPAN lang=
=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Wingdings; mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E<FONT =
size=3D2=3Ev</FONT=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-WEIGHT: normal; FONT-SIZE: 7pt; LIN=
E-HEIGHT: normal; FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-VARIANT: normal' New Times Roman=3F=
=3F=3E=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0 </SPAN=3E</SPAN=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi=
-language: EN-AU'=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E<FONT size=3D2=3EDon=92t say ther=
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T: normal; FONT-STYLE: normal; FONT-VARIANT: normal' New Times Roman=3F=3F=3E=
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age: EN-AU'=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E<FONT size=3D2=3EDon=92t say that every=
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press coverage was incredible=2E How quickly the condemnation came, and now =
our own Steve Irwin has received similar criticism for taking his baby son i=
nto a live crocidile enclosure=2E<IMG hspace=3D4 src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2E=
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saying 'Perception is reality' and no matter what Steve says about the safet=
y of his actions with his son, the public perceive it a risky and irresponsi=
ble thing to do=2E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARG=
IN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E<FONT size=3D2=3EAs The Australian=
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Verdana=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<EM=3E'Describing the self-styled Crocodile Hunte=
r's behaviour as strange and 'quite worrying', National Australia Day Counci=
l director Marjorie Turbayne said she would today ask the organisation's nat=
ional director to consult other board members about Irwin's fitness to be co=
nsidered for 2004 Australian of the Year=2E' <BR=3E<BR=3E</EM=3EBeing a fath=
er in public life may be more difficult than those of us not in the limeligh=
t, but the responsibilities do not alter=2E<BR=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</P=3E<P =
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NT size=3D2=3EIt is a=A0challenge,=A0that the responses of the media could n=
ot be directed to the longterm matters that affect fathering and their child=
ren, with as much gusto as this isolated incident with Steve Irwin received=2E=
<BR=3E=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=
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=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F<BR=3E<BR=3EThese articles are some of the many written=
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2=3E<BR=3E<STRONG=3EOpen war on Fathers</STRONG=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</P=3E<P=
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